I've conducted a number of interviews for my thesis this week (and have a few more planned for the next coming weeks). While all have gone well, some have been more encouraging than others for the state of sexuality education in Jewish schools.
It is hard for me to be a neutral interviewer. I try to be an active listener, rather than being in dialogue with the other person. But it is hard for me to leave my opinions and thoughts completely out of it, particularly when the interviewee wants advice. I tend to leave my advice, resources, and offers of help until at least the end of the interview, if not until email contact afterwards.
One interviewee expressed concern over his knowledge of abuse and didn't know how to teach about it. Did I have any advice or curriculum, he asked. After the interview, I sent him an email with a few thoughts and a book recommendation.
If you've ever engaged me in this topic, you know how strongly I feel about it. So you can imagine my excitement to receive an email back from him, telling me that he's already ordered the book that I recommended. I am hoping that one day my research will make a difference in the world of Jewish Sexuality Education. To know that it might make a difference on a smaller scale, right now, is a fabulous feeling.
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